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wdofrhs lshdf.k tk fndre ldrfhl=f.ka mßiaiï fjk yeá

Tkak b;ska mdi,a jhia bjrfj,d ;reK jhig t<Uqk .uka wfma fld,af,d fl,af,d yeufofklau n,kafk fma%u iïnkaO;djhla mgka .kak’ mdi,a jhfi;a fma%u iïnkaO;d ;snqKg ta yqÕla tajd ;jld,sl” ta fj,djg ys;g tk fmdä wdl¾IKhla ksid mgka .;a; iïnkaO;dfk’ oeka b;ska jeäysáhkaf.kq;a ta ;rï pqre pqre ke;s ;reK jhig wdmq ksid riaidjla jf.au mria;djl=;a fydhd.kak tl ;uhs yqÕ fofkl=f.a gd.Ü tl’ úfYaIfhkau .eyeKq <uhs’ fld,af,d Th *ka tlg fl,af,d lSm fofklau wdY%h l<dg fl,af,d kï n,kafk iaÓr wdorjka;hd fydhd.kafk fldfyduo lsh,hs’ b;ska Th w;fr wdofrhs lshdf.k tk fndre ldrfhl=g wyqfjkak ;sfhk bv lv;a fndfydu jeähs’ b;ska wms n,uqo fï i;H fma%uhg uqjdfj,d weú;a fl,af,d rjÜgk fndreldrfhla l,skau w÷kf.k thd,f.ka mßiaiï fjkak lrkak mq¿jka mqxÑ mqxÑ foaj,a álla’

1′ wjOdkfhka bkak

Th fldhs foag;a uq,skau lrkak ´k fyd| wjOdkfhka bkak tl ;uhs b;ska’ tfyu ke;=j tk m<fjks fld,a,gu wdf,ka uq,d fj,d” wkaO fj,d wdof¾ lrkak .sfhd;a Th fldhs fndre ldrhdg;a ´k m%fhdackhla .kak mq¿jka’ ta ksid ´ku wdor iïnkaOhla .ek uq,aldf, álla wjOdkfhka bkak ´k’ fldhs foa Èyd;a ieflka n,kak lshk ldrKdj fu;k§ jerÈ keye’ fmïj;d lrk lshk foaj,a” thdf. jgmsgdj” hd¿fjd fhfy<sfhda jf.a yeu ldrKdjla .eku wjOdkfhka bkak’ fkdoefkkak álla fydh, n,kak’ kslkau n,df.k ysáfhd;a Th lsisu fndrejla w,a,.kakkï neye’

2′ fndre w,a,k weia

Th fldhs úÈyg fndre l<;a lsisu c.f;l=g wei j,ska fndre lrkakkï wudrehs’ wr isxÿjl=;a ;sfhkafk —ud Tn;a tlal iqy| l;djla” Tfí weiq;a tlal fma%u l;djla˜ lsh,’ wkak ta jf.a yuqfj,d l;dny lrkfldg fl,skau thdf. weia Èyd n,kak’ weia Èyd n,df.k fndre lshkak” fl,skau weia Èyd n,df.k eye contact tl ;shd.kak fndreldrhskag yßu wudrehs’ álla wjOdkfhka ysáfhd;a blaukska fï fydf¾ w,a,.kak mq¿jka’ ta jf.au ;uhs wjxl ke;s lmá ñksiaiq uqyqKg uqyqK l;d lroa§ idudkH whg jvd jeämqr weysms,a,ï .ykj” jgmsg n,kj’ wkak taj;a weia Èyd n,df.k ysáfhd;a w,a,.kak mq¿jka’

3′ megf,k l;dj” w;sYfhdala;sh

fndre lshkfldg fldfydu;a megf,kjfka’ b;ska meg,S meg,S l;d lrk whsfhla wdfjd;a wkak thd wjxl keye’ lrk fndrej ;ukagj;a Iqj¾ ke;s Wkyu ldgj;a megf,kafk ke;=j l;d lrkak wudrehs’ ta jf.au ;uhs w;sYfhdala;sh’ ta lshkafk ;uka .ek Wjukdjg jvd f,dl= lr, lshjk tl’ fndreldrfhd tfyuhs’ yeufoau yß f,dl=jg fmakak lshjkjd’ b;ska Tkak Thdf. w¿;a fmïj;d yeufoagu olaIhs lshkjkï” thdg i,a,s ndf.a W;=rkak ;sfhkj lshkjkï” thdg ;sfhk jdyfka f,dl+ tlla lshkjkï” wkak ta jf.a thdf. yeufoau uyd mßudKfhka lshjkjkï álla mßiaiï fjkak fydf|a’

4′ Body Language

ukqiaifhl=f.a pß; ,laIK” is;=ú,s tfyu yßhgu oek.kak mq¿jka l%uhla ;uhs fï YÍr NdIdj” tfyu;a ke;a;ï body language tl lshkafk’ yßhgu lsõfjd;a udkj ikaksfõokfhka 85] lau láka lshfjk jpk j,g tyd .shmq YÍr l%shdjka” bßhõ” yfå ú,dih iy uqyqfKa uia ms~q yeisÍu jf.a ldrKd lsh,hs lshkafka’ b;ska láka fkdlsõj;a thd lrk fndrej Thdg Th YÍr NdIdjg wjOdkh fhduq lf<d;a f,aisfhkau fydhd.kak mq¿jka’ wkjYH fkdikaiqka nj” ks;r ;Èka f;d,a yemSu” l;d lrk w;f¾ w;ska lg jeiSu jf.a foaj,a fndre lshk whf.a ,laIK lsh, ;uhs lshkafk’

5′ fkd.e,fmk l;kaor

thd lshk l;kaor tllg tlla fjkiakï Tkak t;kskq;a fndrej w,a,.kak mq¿jka’ yenehs fïl lrkak;a wr uq,skau lsõjd jf.a iEfykak wjOdkhlska bkak ´k’ idudkHfhka mj;sk we;a;la jf.a fkfuhs’ uj, lshmq fndrejla ñksfyl=g u;l ;shdf.k bkak wudrehs’ ta ksid w¨‍f;ka l;djla lshoa§ l,ska lshmq fndrej wu;l fj,d fjku tlla lshfjkafk mq¿jka fndreldrfhlakï’ Tkak wjOdkfhka ysáfhd;a gla.d, jefâ udÜgq’

6′ fm!oa.,sl f;dr;=re tmdæ

uq,skau lsõjd jf.a wkaO fj,d wdorh lrk tmd’ mgka .;af; fma%u iïnkaOhla Wkdg mqoa.,hd yßhg w÷r.kaklï” ys;g úYajdihla we;sfjklka Thdf.a mqoa.,sl f;dr;=re thdg lshkak hkak tmd’ thd fndreldrfhlakï lShgj;a thdf. we;a; mqoa.,sl f;dr;=re Thdg lshk tlla keye’ yenehs Thd lshk Thdf.a mqoa.,sl f;dr;=re j,ska whq;= m%fhdack .kak thdg mq¿jka’ ta ksid mßiaiï fjkak’ ál ld,hla hklka we;a; f;dr;=re yex.=jg lula keye’

7′ iyc bjg bv fokak

wdor iïnkaO;djhla ú;rla fkfuhs” ´ku ldrKdjl§ ;ukaf.a há ys; tl tl foaj,a lshkjfk’ ta foaj,a yeu fj,dfju yßhkafk kï keye ;uhs’ ys;g;a iEfykak jrÈk fj,dj,a ;sfhkjd’ t;a fï jf.a ldrKhlÈkï háys; lshk foag álla weyqkalka fokak fjkj’ ys;g ielhla we;=,afjkak yokjkï nh ke;=j ta ielhg bv fokak’ iaÓr fma%u iïnkaO;djhl§ yß újdyhl§ yß ielh lshkafk krlu y;=frla Wkdg fï jf.a jeg Wv ;sfhk ldrKdjl§kï ielh f,dl= f,dl= Woõ lrkj’ ta há ys;g mq¿jka Thdj fjkak ;sfhk f,dl= wk;=rlska fír.kak’ ys;g krlhs” wuq;=hs lsh, ;sfhk ;eka ;sfhkjkï nh ke;=j m%Yak lr, ksrjq,a lr.kak’ tfyu;a ke;a;ï fydfrka yß álla jeämqr fydh, n,kak’

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