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i,a,s ;sín;a ke;;a la,dia tl ;sfhk ukqiaifhla fjkafka fufyuhs

la,dia tl lsõjyu biafldaf, hk ldf,a kï wfma T¨‍jg wdfõ wms bf.k .kak mx;sh’ leïmia .shmq ldf,a la,dia tl lsõfõ ,efnk mx;s idud¾:hg’ yenehs Bg miafia la,dia tl lsh,d yeufjf,au y÷kajkafka iudc mx;sh .ek’ fï iudc mx;sh ks¾jpkh lrk úúO wdldr ;sfhkjd’ yenehs wms fmdÿfõ y÷kajk mx;sh” la,dia tl ke;skï la,diskia lsh,d lshkafka ukqiaifhlaf.a fld,sáh .ek’ ´k kï ks¾Ok mx;sfha ukqiaifhlag jqk;a fyd| la,dis ukqiaifhla fjkak mq¿jka lshk tl ;uhs fï lshkafka’

Th la,dis lshk tl fndfydu wuq;=” wmQre fohla’ talg fya;=jla ;sfhkjd’ ta ;uhs la,dis .;sh i,a,s j,g .kak neß ùu’ iuyre i,a,s ;sfhk ksid b;du fyd|g we|,d me<|,d ysáh;a” iuyr fj,djg lg wermq .uka la,dia tl ìu’ t;fldg ;j iuyre bkakjd fldhs ;rï oekW.;a jqk;a fmkqfuka lsisu m%sh;djhla we;sfjkafka keye’ tfyu whf.;a la,dia tlla neÆ ne,aug fmfkkafka kE’ yenehs la,dis fjkak lrkak ´k foaj,a T;kska wjika fjkafk;a kE’ ;j ;sfhkjd’ t;fldg fï la,dia tfla tfyu ke;skï la,diskia tfla ;sfhk úfYaIu foa ;uhs” ´ku flfklag W;aidyfhka la,dis fjkak mq¿jka ùu’

tfyu la,dis fjkafka fldfyduo lshk tl .ek ;uhs fï lshkak hkafka’

1′ fmkqfï fld,sáh

wms l,skq;a lsh,d ;sfhkjd fmkqfuka ukqiaifhlaf.a la,dia tl mj;aj.kafka fldfyduo lshk tl .ek’ ta lshkafka uqo,a yo,a ;;a;ajh fldfydu jqk;a” flfklag ;ekg .e,fmk úÈhg” ms<sfj,g w¢kak m<¢kak neß keyefka’ ;ukag ;sfhkafka tl we÷ula jqk;a” tal weÕg .e,fmk úÈhg” ms<sfj,g” msßisÿjg w¢kjd kï wkak tal la,dis’ úfYaIfhkau ;ukaf.a weÕg *sÜ fjk úÈfha” wkjYH úÈhg weÕg jvd f,dl= ke;s úÈfha we÷ï ;uhs flfklag .e,fmkafka’ im;a;= fol fldhs ;rï mrK jqk;a fmd,sIa lr,d” fyd| ;;a;ajfhka m<¢kjd kï taflka la,dia tl Tmakexfjkjd’ t;fldg ;ukaf.a we÷ï wdhs;a;ï j,g ´k fn,aÜ” m¾ia jf.a wu;r Wmdx. .EKq <ufhlag kï m¾ia” yEkaânE.a jf.a Wmdx. jf.au m<¢k wdNrK wdhs;a;ï jqk;a ir, fjk ;rug flfklaf.a la,dia tl biau;= fjkjd’

2′ m¾ik,a .Dñka jeo.;a

fï m¾ik,a .Dñka lshkafka frdlÜ ihkaia fkfjhs’ flfklag ;ukaf.a fmkqu ukdj mj;ajd.kak” /jq, fyd¢ka lm,d fyda .dKg g%sï lr,d” mSr,d” fldKavh fyd|g mSr,d” fm!oa.,sl msßisÿlu ukdj mj;ajd f.k” kshfmd;= lm,d” o;a ueo,d msßisÿ lrf.k bkak neß lula kEfka’ fukak fï ffokslj ;ukaf.a YÍr fi!LHh yd msßisÿlu mj;ajd .kak p¾hd rgdjka ksid flfklag bfíu fyd| la,dis fmkqula ,efnkjd’ ;ukag YÍr fhda.H;djh;a fyd¢ka mj;ajd .kak mq¿jka kï fï la,diskia tl ;j;a Tma kexfjkjd’

3′ g%fkaâ tlæ

idudkHfhka oeka Th *eIka f,dafla ú;rla fkfjhs” fidaI,a óähd j, jqk;a” idudkH iudcfha jqk;a fkdfhl=;a g%fkaâia” ta lshkafka /<s tkjd’ iudfÊ bkak f.dvla fofkla ta /<s;a tlalu hkak;a W;aidy lrkjd’ yenehs T;k§ fufyu foal=;a ;sfhkjd’ Th yeu /,a,lau ;ukag .e,fmkafka ke;s fjkak mq¿jka’ WodyrKhla úÈhg .;af;d;a” w¨‍f;kau tk ne.S *eIka /,a, we;a;gu .e,fmkafka kjfhdjqka wjÈfha bkak whg fjkak mq¿jka’ t;fldg jhiska jeä ukqiaifhla ta *eIka tl lrkak .shyu bfíu ta ukqiaihdf.a la,dia tl nyskjd’

fianqla /ia fi,a*s odk /,a,la tkak mq¨‍jka’ yenehs hï lsis ukqiaifhlaf.a jhfia iy ;;a;ajfha yeáhg tfyu tlla l<yu la,dia tl ke;sfjkak mq¿jka’ wkak ta ksid ;ukag .e,fmk g%fkaâia ú;rla wkq.ukh lrkak mqreÿ fjkak jqjukdhs’ 4′ l:d nfya fld,sáh we;a;gu flfklag la,dia tlla mj;ajd .kak kï fyd| wOHdmkhla w;HdjYHhs’ fï lshkafka úêu;a wOHdmkh .eku fkfjhs’ wúêu;a wOHdmkh jqk;a lula kE’ wOHdmkfhka flfklaf.a is;k m;k úÈh” l;dny lrk úÈh” f,dal oelau jf.a foaj,a j,g wdf,dalhla ,efnkjd’ wkak t;fldg tfyu ukqiaifhla tlal l;dny lrkfldg ta l;dnfya f,dl= fld,sáhla oefkkjd’ wkak tal ;uhs la,dia tl lshkafka’ úfYaIfhkau ;ek fkd;ek fkdn,d l=Kqyrem lshk” pdrhla ke;=j l;d lrk” flfklag ks.re fjk úÈhg l;d lrk whg la,dia tlla keyehs lshk tl wmsg ys;g hk fohla’ ta jf.au ;uhs” ;uka fyd| wd;au úYajdihla we;=j” meyeÈ,sj l;d lrk tl;a” jdpd, l;d fkdlshk tl;a” wkjYH foaj,a l;d fkdlrk tl;a la,dis ùfï meyeÈ,s ,laIK’ 5′ ks.re lsÍï fudkjdo” fldka lsÍï fudkjdo lshd oek isàu iuyr ñksiaiq bkakjd” fldÉpr oekW.;a lï ;snqK;a” uqo,a yo,a ;snqK;a okafka ke;s tlu foa ;uhs ;j;a flfklag .re lrkafka fldfyduo” flfklaj fldka fkdlrkafka fldfyduo” flfklaj ta wdldrfhkau ms<s.kafka fldfyduo lshk tl’ wdkak ta jf.a whf.a lsisu la,dia tlla fmakafk;a kE’ WodyrKhla úÈhg .;af;d;a” —.EKqkag fldfyo fudf<a˜ lsh,d Wmydfig yskdfjk ukqiaifhlaf.a lsisu la,dia tlla kE’ fjk;a cd;shlg” fjk;a wd.ulg fldka lsÍula” fjkia lula fkdlr i,lkak okafka ke;s ukqiaifhlaf.a lsisu la,dia tlla kE’ ;ukag jvd jeäuy¨‍ fõjd” nd, fõjd” ;;a;ajfhka Wiia fõjd” ;;ajfhka my;a fõjd flfklag .re ire we;sj l;d lrkak okafk ke;s flfklaf.a la,dia tlla kE’ wdkak ta ksid la,dia tlg fïjd jeo.;a’ 6′ fld,sá wdl,am ;sfhk ukqiaifhla ùu la,dis ukqiaifhla lshkafka fyd| fld,sàia ;sfhk ukqiaifhla ùu ;uhs’ wkak talg fmkqfï fld,sáh” l;dnfya fld,sáh jf.au wdl,am j, fld,sáh;a jeo.;a fjkjd’ we;a;gu Wv lsh,d ;sfhk .re lghq;= yeisÍug;a fï wdl,am j, fld,sáh jeo.;a fjkjd’ wdl,am j, fld,sáh lsõjyu iEfyk mq¿,aj l;d lrkak ´k fohla’ yenehs fmdÿfõ lshkak mq¿jka ;ukaf.a /lshdj iïnkaOfhka jqk;a” iudcfha fjk;a fohla iïnkaOfhka jqk;a fm%df*Ik,a úÈhg lghq;= lsÍu” yeu foal§u ;ukaf.a iSudjka yßhdldrj mj;ajd .ekSu” ;uka lrk lshk foaj,a iïnkaOfhka fyd| wjxl” wl=á,” wjHdc Ndjhla mj;ajd .ekSu jf.a foaj,a’ WodyrKhla úÈhg lsjqfjd;a” wkqkaf.a l=Kq fyùu” ´m¥m l;d lsÍu” fla,ï lSu” ke;s ;ek fodia lSu jf.a foaj,a fld,sáhla ke;s ukqiaifhlaf.a .;s ,laIK ;uhs’ 7′ la,dia tl .ek l;d fkdlsÍu wjidk jYfhka fïl;a lshkak ´kuhs’ ;ukaf.a la,dia tl .ek f,dl= lï fkdlshùu” ;uka .ek f,dl=lï fkdlshùu wksjd¾hfhkau fyd| la,dia tlla ;sfhk ukqiaifhlaf.a ,laIKhla’ —uu fyd| la,dia tlla ;sfhk flfkla˜” —wfma uó veã wyj,a¨‍˜” —wms ljqo Wkaj .Kka .kak˜ jf.a fgdalaia fkd§u jf.au ;ukag ;sfhk foaj,a” ;uka ,Õd lr.;a;= foaj,a .ek mïfmdaß fkd.yk tl;a” jeo.;a la,dia tlla ysñ mqoa.,fhlaf.a ,laIKhla’ we;a;gu la,dia tlla ;sfhk ukqiaifhla fjkak ;sfhkak ´k ;j;a foaj,a lshkak mq¿jka’ yenehs wdfhu;a fláfhka lsjqfjd;a” fld,sáhla ;sfhk ukqiaifhla fjk tl ;uhs la,dia tlla ;sfhk ukqiaifhla fjk tl lshkafka’ oeka f;afrkjd fkao la,dia tlla ;sfhk flfkla fjkak i,a,s” n,h wjYH kE lsh,dæ

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